One of the common responses I get is, “it’s gross,” or “it doesn’t feel right.
Exactly! When I first started working with children, I was horrified to learn about the number of situations where their parents were so desperate to touch them that they didn’t even realize they were touchable.
I think a lot of parents are worried that if they do touch them, they’ll get dirty looks and other unwanted attention. This is just a sign that the parents/guardians are scared of them and that they dont want to be near them. And it’s a shame because some kids have just been born to parents who love them, and it’s these kids who are going to have the most fun.
If you want to ensure that your child is in a loving relationship with their parents, you should always be there for them when they are in need. And if they aren’t, you should take the initiative and try to help them realize that you care about them. You don’t need to make everything about you.
You don’t have to care about them. That’s something that I often hear from parents that I know. And I know this because I am a mother who has seen my children grow up, learn their manners, know what they want to do, and have a lot of fun.
The thing is, if you don’t have a relationship with your child, no matter how loving your relationship is, it doesn’t matter. The thing is that it takes a lot of time to develop and nurture a relationship with your child. The fact is that the best time you can provide for your child is when they need you to be there.
This is such a good idea to think about, especially when you are working on a business, because it keeps your business in the front of your mind, but at the same time has the added benefit of making sure you are available to your child as needed. It keeps your parenting energy focused on your child, even when your business is in the background.
In an ideal world, your husband/wife would come help you with a new idea or ask you a question. But we all know that’s not always possible. But I’ve noticed a few times in the past couple weeks that a lot of women in my office have been asking me about my son’s new puppy.
As a parent, you have the best interest of your child at heart, but you must balance out your own desire to parent with being available and willing to help your child. You must also be honest with yourself about your own needs for help. It is important to be able to say yes when your friend wants to adopt a child, no matter how you feel about it, but you must also be able to say no when your own child needs a new toy or a new sibling.
It’s been my experience that when you’re a parent you have to get off the couch. It’s tough but it’s necessary. For me, as a father of two very young boys, it’s even tougher. I love it, but I don’t want to take it away. I don’t want my kids growing up to be afraid to ask their parents for help if something is wrong. I want them to know how to be self-sufficient.